This article is meant to be an advice article on how you can at least put yourself in a good position to get your ex girlfriend back. "How Do I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back?" you ask? There are no guarantees because everyone is different. The first thing you need to understand before attempting this is simple: why do you want to get back with your ex back?

Relationships are funny Brandon Manning Flyers Jersey , they all have their ups and downs. One day you are happy in your relationship and the next day you start to question it. If you are currently out of a relationship, regardless of who ended it, you have to be sure that getting that relationship back is what you want. Now your ex may have moved on, or maybe she claims to hate you and wants nothing to do with you. In this situation, it would be very hard to rekindle the relationship Scott Laughton Flyers Jersey , but that doesn't mean you have to give up trying.

I always feel that all relationships go through three phases:

The initial phase
Boy isn't this the greatest feeling. You found someone that you are interested in and there is all kinds of excitement in the air. You wondered what you did without this person your whole life. This person is now your greatest pursuit. You want to impress and show this person all that you can to make sure she continues to be interested in you in hopes that this could be the one!

The middle phase
This is the phase where the comfort of being with this person has settled in, and you are now past the "she is perfect in every way" thinking that got you through the initial phase. She is still great, but now you are starting to recognize things that aren't so desirable. Now nobody is perfect, and we all know that, and there will be some imperfections Sean Couturier Flyers Jersey , but this is the part of the relationship where if you really love and care about this person, those imperfections are tolerable and there may even be some differences that you will even learn from, appreciate, and maybe even start to change your own beliefs based on them.

The comfort phase
Ah, it has now been over a year or so Travis Konecny Flyers Jersey , this person is part of your routine in life. You love her, you will have your differences, but if the love and connection is strong, you learn to tolerate almost anything. You both have now built trust in each other. This is the most crucial of the phases, because you are now locked in. She is your girlfriend Ivan Provorov Flyers Jersey , you are her boyfriend, and the level of expectations of each other have raised considerably.

O.K. so I wanted to cover the before picture of the relationship. That all shouldn't be knew to anyone. Relationships all start off great. Nobody is perfect until you fall in love. Well now during the comfort phase, something went wrong. Trust may have been lost somewhere. The sparks may have gone and the chemistry went. Something caused a break-up and now you want that person back.

I will write more articles about this, but the first bit of advice I can give all of you is